Priče o upoznavanju
Svi imamo barem jednu, bilo pozitivno bilo negativno, neobičnu priču kako smo upoznali nekoga.
I met my wife at Silver Dollar City in Branson, MO. There was a “Youth in Bluegrass” band competition, and she was playing bass with her family, and I was playing banjo with a different band. We were the only two people our age, and she was (and still is) extremely attractive. I struck up some easy conversation, and then I manned up and asked her dad, that’s right her FATHER, if I could get to know her and potentially start a relationship. We got married about 1 year later, we’ve been married for almost 3 years, and our second child is on the way. Music is a great way to meet women.
We met 19 years ago at a party that neither of us wanted to go to, but friends begged us go to. So yes, you can find your other half somewhere you would normally never set foot like a goth club…
I was her waiter at TGI Fridays when she was out with some triends, we were married a year later in Las Vegas. That was 2 kids and 16 years ago and she is still hot.
In the Army. She was in the class ahead of me!
Tema spornog članka je gdje upoznati žene, a ovo su neki od zanimljivih komentara gdje su čitatelji upoznavali svoje bolje polovine.
Čitajući dalje, naletila sam na ovaj komentar i pomislila, to je i kod nas tako.
In our culture, the time and place to find someone’s future mate is in college. That’s just the way the culture is set up now. If you don’t find someone then, well, good luck. Try the above. I guess. But, contrary to the stupidities perpetuated today, the time to get married is when one is young and relatively unformed. We are actually less selfish when we are young–we have not yet developed the self-oriented habits that we eventually will form as we age. Thus, as we get older, we become highly particularized individuals, and hence, less compatible and less marriageable.
Na sebi sam barem primjetila da što sam starija sve sam manje sklona kompromisu na teret mojih obaveza i slobodnog vremena, a za dobrobit veze. S druge strane, teško je naći i tolerantnog muškarca koji će "trpiti" samostalnost u vezi, ili onog koji je i sam dovoljno samostalan da razumije tu potrebu, a opet održati onu iskricu i intimnost, da veza ne postane tek navika dvoje ljudi da su zajedno, lišena imalo strasti.